It has been an interesting couple of weeks. Nothing like an emotional roller coaster and not knowing exactly what is happening with your child.
My 17 yr. old, Kevin, decided to enlist in the Army. After some crying by me and some convincing by him and his father, telling me this is what he wants to do, there is nothing out there for teens, no jobs, no money for college, etc., I relented and we signed the documents to turn my son over to the US Army. What a tough decision that was, I felt as I was giving my son a death sentence.
He was very excited and did all his requirements, prepped himself physically and I was impressed. He was determined to be in tip-top shape and his dad and girlfriend worked out with him on a daily basis and he looked good when he left.
He reported at his recruiter's office on June 21 (day after Father's Day). I didn't sleep the night before and I cried the whole way there. He was strong and stoic and so was my husband and his girlfriend, until it was time to say goodbye and it was like the damn broke and the tears just came out and rolled down. I couldn't even talk or breathe, my chest hurt so bad. Plenty of hugs, kisses and goodbyes.
It was the longest ride ever - everyone was crying and crying. Some migraine I ended up with. But we heard from him that night and he told us he was ok, then the next day, then from the airport and then while at reception.
We knew what to expect, we have lots of family members that have served and are presently serving and some included instructors and drill sergeants, so we knew the routine, but it was still tough.
It has been a hard time to walk past his room and not hear him playing Xbox, talking loud, hanging out with his friends, running down the stairs to borrow the car to go to the basketball field to play basketball and I actually miss the steady stream of all his friends not coming through the house and hanging out for dinner, etc.
Oh well, time has flown, calls on Sunday (well almost every Sunday) except for those times they are not allowed to call for the misconducts of others. Asked to send him letters, we did and then he complains that sometimes 8-10 days without a letter then he has to do 10-20 push ups for each letter he wants.
As the weeks went by he sounded better, then stressed out during BRM and then better once he passed. Graduation is almost here - Sept. 2nd and we can't wait to see him and hold, hug and kiss him. Hope he is not too embarassed by all the fuss we make over him.